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Guest Column By Kelly Ramirez For those of us in the community of Gilroy, and beyond, our lives were forever changed at 5:41 PM, Sunday, July 28, 2019. I n those moments of terror, as a gunman shot randomly at people at our Gilroy Garlic Festival, our sense of security and safety were devastated. Our home had been violent- ly invaded in a similar way that plays out too often throughout our country, but in a way we never thought would happen in our home. Personally, I was shattered to the core. Bullets flew too close. Along with others, I ran for shelter and huddled in fear with a group of people, swear- ing that today was not the day we were dying. Hours later, as I lay in bed reliving the nightmare, experiencing the uncontrollable shaking as my body responded to the fight or flight experi- ence of hours earlier, and thinking of all the “what ifs,” I resolved then to com- mit to working towards an answer to this type of violence. 104 True to my nature, I was ready to jump in, head-first, and join the fight. Fortunately, my wise and knowledgeable husband advised me that I had no idea what I was talking about when it came to guns and that I should first educate myself. He was right. And I figured I wasn’t alone in my lack of knowledge. Consequently, I gathered a group of people from the community who would join me in learning about the issue, as well as becoming familiar with options to become more engaged in the fight for safer communities. I realized that not only for myself, but for many others, taking action was instrumental to the healing process. The more educated we became, we realized how absolutely chaotic gun laws are, how unfortunately politi- cized and monetized the issue is, and that even though organizations that support common-sense gun laws have never promoted repealing the Second Amendment, they are hard-fought by the NRA. We learned that California has some of the strictest gun laws, but there are roughly 800 laws. This chaos has required a Deputy District Attorney from the Santa Clara County District Attorney’s office to create a several-page “cheat sheet” for law enforcement that outlines when guns can be removed from a suspect and/ or when a suspect can be arrested. We learned about “ghost guns” or “lower 80s” where anyone, regardless of age or criminal history, can legally purchase items online that can very easily be made into guns simply by watching YouTube videos. In these cases, there is no background check. There are no serial numbers. And typically, these guns are not being made by law-abiding citizens, but rather those involved in the criminal element. And during our visit with Representative Zoe Lofgren, we learned that she, an elected official authorizing, sponsoring and support- ing gun laws, was unaware of “ghost guns.” GILROY • MORGAN HILL • SAN MARTIN SPRING 2020 We learned that it is not against the law to threaten to shoot up a school. Our group has had community forums with presentations from Gilroy police officers who have tried to explain the various parts, types and uses of guns. We also heard from health care experts regarding the journey we travel as we heal. We’ve met as a group to have mean- ingful dialogue, learning from people who have different perspectives when it comes to gun laws. We have met with elected officials, heard presentations from the Santa Clara District Attorney’s office and a presentation from Moms Demand Action, an organization working towards the elimination of gun violence. We hope to also hear from the Sandy Hook Promise about their school ini- tiative, SAVE Promise Clubs (Students Against Violence Everywhere). We are still in the information gath- ering process as it is so overwhelming. Personally, even though I am unsure of where my efforts will land on this issue, I have found that by becoming engaged in this effort, alongside many fellow community members, I am heal- ing. I recognize that the healing process has no end date, and that there will be triggers I still need to manage, but I am grateful that I belong to a community committed to healing from this tragedy. Immediately following this tragedy, the community of Gilroy came together. The Gilroy Foundation was overcome with millions of dollars of donations for the support of the victims. “Gilroy Rocks,” an art project led by local artist Carol Peters, had community members doing art therapy by memorializing art on rocks and placing them around the city. And while the cause was horrific, we bonded. In our coming together, we became stronger. We are moving on. We are healing. We truly are GilroyStrong. I am proud to be a part of this commu- nity I call home. #GilroyStrong! gmhtoday.com