MSEJ Spring 2020 | Page 18

Whether you’re in the military, or married to someone who serves, the military lifestyle takes motivated individuals who are quick to act, accomplish tasks, and find successes to attain a mission-complete status. It’s second nature to hit the ground running and try to achieve your goals quickly, so when orders come up and you have to take two steps back, it’s especially frustrating. The best way to stay focused on achieving your goals throughout the changes and complications is by utilizing baby steps.

The hardest step in achieving your goal is the first step. Don’t worry-- it doesn’t have to be a big step, just take that first step. And then take that next tiny step and the next. But, what does that mean exactly?

Well, each main goal should be broken down into bite-size pieces. Something that you can focus on and accomplish in steps or stages, without having to completely stop living your current daily life. There are no promotion boards making sure every box is checked; they aren’t comparing your accomplishments with your peers. It is up to you to determine the success and failure of the steps you take.

Don't Count your Steps... Just Take Them!

Written By: Zanetta Padilla